
The Bouquet & Garter Toss: Are They Still Wedding Favorites?
March 10, 2025
Weddings are full of traditions, but not all of them stand the test of time. One of the biggest debates among modern couples is whether the bouquet and garter toss still belong on the dance floor. Are guests really enjoying these moments, or are they outdated traditions that make people uncomfortable?
The Bouquet Toss: Fun or Forced?
The bouquet toss has been a staple at weddings for generations, symbolizing luck in love for the next person to marry. While some guests still enjoy the playful competition, many find it awkward—especially those who don’t want to be singled out as “still single.” One Reddit user shared how relieved their cousin was to attend a wedding without a bouquet toss, as she had always been pressured onto the dance floor by family members.
That said, some couples are reimagining the bouquet toss to make it more inclusive and entertaining. A few fun alternatives include:
Tossing a bouquet made of lottery scratchers, so anyone can join in for a chance to win.
Offering a prize, like a bottle of wine or a gift card, instead of the traditional “next to be married” meaning.
Simply handing the bouquet to a close friend or relative, avoiding the competition altogether.
At Jason Kent Wedding DJs, we know how to make the bouquet toss a true highlight of the night. Whether you want to keep it classy and elegant or turn it into a high-energy, music-pumping spectacle, we tailor the moment to your crowd. Imagine a suspenseful buildup, dramatic lighting, and the perfect song to make that toss unforgettable!
The Garter Toss: A Tradition Fading Fast (Or Not?)
While the bouquet toss remains somewhat popular, the garter toss is quickly losing favor. Many couples and guests find it outdated or even uncomfortable. The tradition originally stemmed from the belief that obtaining a piece of the bride’s clothing brought good luck—but modern weddings have moved past that.
Reddit users overwhelmingly agreed that the garter toss is unnecessary, with some calling it “overly sexual” and “just plain awkward.” One commenter joked about how a DJ announcing the garter toss might as well say, “Alright, everyone, gather around for some simulated cunnilingus!”—which highlights just how uncomfortable this tradition can feel.
Because of this, many couples are skipping the garter toss entirely. Instead, they’re using that time for more dancing, fun games, or special moments like a private last dance.
But if you want to keep the garter toss, we know how to make it a blast! Whether you prefer a tasteful, PG-rated moment or want to go all-in with a wild, R-rated twist, we cater the experience to match your vibe. We’ve seen everything from smooth and classy James Bond-style moments to full-on Magic Mike energy—it’s your wedding, and we’re here to make it exactly what you want!
Should You Keep These Traditions?
At the end of the day, it’s your wedding, and you get to decide what traditions fit your style. If you love the bouquet toss, keep it! If you’re looking for an alternative, consider new ways to make it fun for everyone. As for the garter toss? Most couples are saying, “Hard pass,” but if you’re ready to turn up the heat, we’re all in!
No matter what you choose, Jason Kent Wedding DJs will keep the party going and make sure your wedding is one to remember. Let’s create an epic night that your guests will be talking about for years to come!
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